Original Prayer

What is the point in living when you don't have a partner to love you. And people bang on about your self pity. I think they should have to suffer what I have had to. People at christian healing places love to "challenge" you but not just love you, what is the point of that, just the usual rubbish in the church. what is new. If i DO NOT GET BLESSED IN THIS LIFE i JUST WON'T LIVE ANY MORE I am fed up with being treated like garbage by my family so called friends and the church.

Submitted by F on 5 Mar 2010

Responses

Dearest Heavenly Father, I know a broken and contrite spirit is your joy as you can show your great and mighty power to that broken person .May you draw really close to this dear saint of yours and Father please if it be your will soon give them a spouse of your choosing .Amen & Amen Dear friend, greetings to you in Our Precious Lord Jesus name . As, I do not know if you are male or female ,Icannot pray for a wife or husband so forgive me for using term `spouse `. My precious and very committed Christian son is exactly like you .He Has been desperately sorrowful and empty for around 6months due to lonliness of no partner to walk life`s journey with. OBVIOUSLY AT 29YRS OLD AND WITH NO PAST RELATIONSHIPS HE FEELS A FREAK ! . However, I also totally agree some Christians are so unhelpful, insensitive and a total waste of space in these very serious and genuine scenarios .. He often returns home from church more wounded than he felt prior to going there .Do you feel that way ?The fact is Ihave no answers except that the Lord must surely be preserving you both for greater things and a dear partner of his choosing in his time . So many Christian divorces now that to wait for right person is vital .Believe me Isense your anguish as it is the same with my son .One Valentines day a girl he had shared coffee dates with sent a dumping text .He was disheartened so much that every valentines day he returnsto that past trauma and relives it so Ido understand as much as a Mum can. Ihope God leads u to go on top cross rhythms today and see this response Ilove the Lord and yet days I often even doubt HIS Existence! So Satan`s darts are very pointed and deep. May our LoRD richly Bless ,enrich and sustain you until your prayer is answered in a wonderful way . Sister- in -Christ Linda Ann (McC ) Belfast

Submitted by Linda on 26 Feb 2011

I was sad to read the pain in your words. You do not need to have a partner to be someone, you are someone in your own right. Sometimes it is difficult for people to understand the pain and lonliness you are feeling if they haven't been in your situation. I have now been single for 3 years and at times I hurt so much, but that is when I cry out to God with all my heart, I then just sit and allow His love and peace to surge through me..... it is a wonderful feeling and I feel very blessed to be in a position where I can be still and spend time with God, allowing Him the time to do what He does best....love us. I pray you can take comfort from these words and that you too can open your heart and sit before God and let Him heal you. God bless.

Submitted by gillian on 25 Mar 2010

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